aseriouslady

You live like this, sheltered, in a delicate world, and you believe you are living. Then you read a book… or you take a trip… and you discover that you are not living, that you are hibernating. The symptoms of hibernating are easily detectable: first, restlessness. The second symptom (when hibernating becomes dangerous and might degenerate into death): absence of pleasure. That is all. It appears like an innocuous illness. Monotony, boredom, death. Millions live like this (or die like this) without knowing it. They work in offices. They drive a car. They picnic with their families. They raise children. And then some shock treatment takes place, a person, a book, a song, and it awakens them and saves them from death. Some never awaken.

— Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934 (via lavandula)

(Source: immortels)


Laura Marling and Ryan Adams perform Oh My Sweet Carolina at the Abbey Road studios, Nov 2011. 

I could watch this a dozen times every day and never get sick of it. 


book wish-list (ongoing)

The Fault in Our Stars // John Green

Parisian Chic // Ines de La Fressange

Frank Sinatra Has A Cold // Gay Talese

The Marriage Plot // Jeffrey Eugenides

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (and other concerns) // Mindy Kaling


in my quest to live in paris for at least a month later this year, I am studiously learning how to wear a scarf, Parisian-style. These Liberty London videos are beyond brilliant (and the LL saleswoman has an accent to die for)


hemmingway’s rules of life

Hemmingway wrote these rules of life when he was 18… (via The Happiness Project)

1. Get up early (five o’clock)

2. Go to bed early (nine to ten o’clock)

3. Eat little and avoid sweets

4. Try to do everything by yourself

5. Have a goal for your whole life, a goal for one section of your life, a goal for a shorter period, and a goal for the year, a goal for every month, a goal for every week, for every hour and a goal for every minute, and sacrifice the lesser goal to the greater.

6. Keep away from women

7. Kill desire by work

8. Be good, but try to let no one know it

9. Always live less expensively than you might

10. Change nothing in your style of living even if you become ten times richer

I like to get up early but laze in bed until eight o’clock; and work from midday until seven o’clock, so I will have to eschew #1 and #2. And #3! I could agree to eat very little if all I could eat was sweets. 

I really like rules #5 and #8 though.